So the blogosphere has deemed today DeLurker Day. For the uninformed, that means if you lurk around a blog but never comment, you’re supposed to delurk and post a comment, saying “hi” or whatever your heart desires.
The concept is intriguing to me because I am intensely curious about who some of you are that show up on my site meter very regularly but never comment. Obviously, you love me (or are at least not annoyed by me) because you keep coming back. And I have some educated guesses but they remain just guesses. So for that reason, part of me would like to declare that I want all my lurkers to delurk.
But, here’s the thing: I am a notorious lurker. All those blogs on my sidebar; I don’t comment on any of them. Well, except for Janice’s. And there are about 10 more blogs I don’t even link to for fear that they might find out I read them (because heaven forbid they might find me and read me or want more traffic even; we wouldn’t want that now, would we?).
I couldn’t really tell you why I don’t comment. I think it’s the introvert in me. Yeah, I know it’s the Internet and I could do it all anonymously or with a fake personality, but I guess I just assume that the me in Internetland is the me in real life. And I am horrible about meeting new people and making new friends. It’s the scariest thing for me to do sometimes and it’s bad enough my job is 75% about the networking. So, it’s easy to fall into the safe pattern of reading blog conversations without actually commenting myself. Sometimes I comment in my head, but it just never reaches the keyboard.
So I feel way too hypocritical about asking lurkers to come out on my own blog when I am a lurker myself. However, if you want to delurk yourself, I’m not stopping you. Feel free to say “hi” or “you rock” or “you suck,” it’s all good. In the meantime, I’m going to lurk on some more blogs and see who I have the courage to delurk myself to.