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February 28th, 2007

Reactions

So you may have noticed from my last post that I had a drastic makeover yesterday. I expected people would notice that I cut my hair, but I was not prepared for the long conversations I would have with everyone about my hair.

- Several people have asked who did my hair. That would be my fantastic hairdresser, Stephanie. You may remember I wrote her a poem a while back. If you’d like your own hip and happening hairstyle, let me know and I will give you her number.

- I can’t say I’ve ever walked into a room where people clapped for my new haircut. But then, those Crystal Chords are wacky ladies.

- And then there’s Jason. His first impression was “It’s ….. modern.” Later, he told me, “I’ve never seen the back of your neck like that, well, except for when your hair was in a ponytail.”

February 27th, 2007

How Rapunzel gained her independence

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February 26th, 2007

Wait, I need to put my disability on!

Easily my favorite quote of the weekend. I spent an exhausting 24 hours with hungry teenagers. And I’m using it to knock off 5 community service acts, which I will explain later. My camera spent the weekend in Jason’s pocket, so the only photos I have are from the only time he was present, which was Saturday morning. But they are good shots, because Jason was the photographer.

**UPDATE** Here are the photos.

As usual, my kids did not disappoint. They were troupers, going hungry and still smiling through most of the famine. We had 40 kids from 5 churches in the area. We raised $1800 for World Vision, which will use the proceeds to take care of children who need food, water, clothes, medicine and love. We played “tribal games” to learn about how hunger affects culture groups around the world; each kid is given a story and if they have an affliction, must play the games with the handicap; some kids were blindfolded, couldn’t talk, had a broken leg or had to carry backpacks. We served on 9 different missions within the community. And the kids were amazing. So was Barb Talbot, our fearless leader.

So here are the highlights, aka how I earned 5 acts of community service.

1) Did I mention the $1800 we raised for World Vision? This is the part where I say I went hungry and raised money to help but since I can’t famine (stupid diabetes) I didn’t feel right asking for sponsors. However, I can sponsor the kids who went hungry, which I did. And I did my best to hide my eating from the kids. I wasn’t like “mean old Jason” who ate blatantly in front of the kids and told them all how yummy it was.

2) The part where I did participate was to be an adult chaperone for the weekend. Mostly, I was in charge of the worship services, but I also drove kids around, called parents for missing permission slip info, judged some of the games and shocked the kids by admitting some of my wild child antics (they had no idea I once had my nose pierced or that I have 2 tattoos) during a game of I Never, which last time I checked, was a drinking game. Now, it’s an ice breaker (but without the drinking).

3) We sang at the Chemung County Nursing Facility. We split into the 3 groups; 1 group started on the top floor and headed down, 1 group started on the bottom floor going up, and 1 group of kids stayed in one place and played Bingo with the residents. It made for a very agreeable group, because the singers got to be hams and the non-singers did not let their talents go unused. I went with a singing group, and we pretty much just strolled along the halls. If someone peeked their head out of their room or it was clear they enjoyed the music, we would stop and sing for them. Many of them were so thankful if one of us stretched out a hand to shake their’s or hug them; that seemed to mean more to them than anything. The favorite song was definitely How Great Thou Art, but the nursing staff’s favorite was Lean on Me (I have no idea how that got in song list, someone just started singing it).

4) I took a group of kids to the Hospitality Spot in Elmira Heights. It’s actually a soup kitchen, run by the Holy Trinity Orthodox Church but it’s so much more than a soup kitchen, hence its name. Upstairs, we made a spaghetti lunch and served it to about 45 people. Downstairs, we sorted and hung clothes for anyone who wanted to take it. One of my kids remarked that the clothes went fast; he’d hang up a pair of jeans, turn around and they’d be gone. Al, who taught us the ins and outs, told us that many people don’t come because they’re poor and can’t afford to eat. He said those people are suffering from depression and their doctors have told them to eat meals with other people; so they don’t come for the food, they come for the friendships and people. That, to me, was huge. I had never thought about that before, that this ministry was more than just providing food.

5) Because of my help, our groups served on 9 community missions. This is a stretch and more indirect, but the reality is I couldn’t possibly go on all the missions myself. But because of my driving abilities, I could allow the group to separate into 9 different groups and serve the community. While I took my kids to the Hospitality Spot, some kids made lunches for the local police dept and fire dept and our shut-ins, some kids baked brownies to give to Meals on Wheels, one group went to Bethany Village to visit with the residents there, a group went to the Children’s Clothing Closet to clean and fold clothes, a few kids went to the home of a shut-in to clean his house, and several kids went to UCP (United Cerebreal Palsey) houses to visit the residents and do arts and crafts with them. The kids were so enthusiastic about their projects, it totally makes me cool by association and I feel like I need to post that 5th service to honor their hard work and dedication.

February 23rd, 2007

30 (well, 24) hours with starving teenagers - who’s in?

I am, I am!

Whenever I tell people I’m helping out with the 30 hour famine, I always get the same response. “Why would you want to spend 30 hours with teens who haven’t eaten? Are you crazy?”  Well, yes, I am crazy but that’s not why I do it every year or why I’m skipping Help Day (with the Crystal Chords) to do it again this weekend.

I do it because these kids inspire me. Sure, they get whiny in that 29th hour, but they take this task seriously. They understand that there are many kids out there all over the world, including in our own community, that don’t get to eat for 30 hours because they have no choice.

Some of the community service groups will be making a really good spaghetti lunch with sauce and meatballs and garlic bread and homemade brownies for dessert.  And they will feel tortured but you can see the resolve in their eyes that they won’t give in to the temptation.  And they proudly talk about the chocolate mix left over on their hands that they did NOT lick off. Because in the next sentence, they’ll talk about the family they served, and how grateful they were for the company and good food.

Even though I’ve had to cut back on working with youth in the past year, I thank God I can still help with events like the 30 hour famine.  The other adults think I’m helping them but the reality is that they’re helping me renew my faith.

So while you’re going about your weekend, I ask you to say a little prayer for the St Matthew’s youth group (and friends from other area churches) to survive the weekend and remember those that aren’t so lucky to have a permanent roof over their heads or the stability to have 3 meals a day.

February 21st, 2007

I feel for the grocery store clerk

I was back at the Food Bank with the Crystal Chords to pack lunch packs. It’s for their backpack program, where kids who can’t afford food are are given lunch packs to take home on vacations and weekends. The packs have soup, milk, applesauce and a snack.

Jessica and I had the job of opening the plastic bags and then double-bagging them for the assembly line of workers putting the food in. And man, they were hard to open. It took us most of the hour we were there to find a good rhythm - where Jessica rips open the bags and I double bag from there.

My favorite part was that we’d get funny looks from the assembly line whenever they came for a bag because they always walked in on the wrong part of the conversation.  What can I say? When there are pressing world events like Britney’s baldness and Nick at Nite rocks because they have Growing Pains, we have a duty to inform others of our extensive pop culture knowledge.

February 15th, 2007

Snowy thoughts

Some random things to share after yesterday’s snow day …

- The nor’easter yesterday was easily the most snow I’ve seen since I got my fantastic Subaru 2 years ago. Driving to work was so much fun! Only the very main roads were plowed (barely) and cars were getting stuck left and right, but not me! Ooh, that power was awesome. Of course, when I brought the car home to Jason to use for his photo and video use, he got himself stuck right away on our own street. And he called panicked that he couldn’t get into the Star-Gazette parking lot, even though I got out of there just fine 10 minutes ago (he couldn’t find the hole in the wall that the suvs made from ramming through the bank). Wuss.

- This snowfall is also the most since we’ve moved to the house in Elmira. We have a teeny tiny yard. Our driveway is bigger than our yard. It was quite tricky trying to get all that snow out of the way. We’re got an interesting mountain range piling up now in my teeny tiny yard.

- Since I found myself with a lot of time to kill, I was looking through my website traffic and decided it’s time to compile a list of the best search phrases people use to Google me. Sure, there’s the obvious “erin cassidy” searches, but there are some very imaginative minds out there. My absolute favorite one I will not print because I really don’t need more people using that search phrase to find my site, but if you’re curious, email me and I’ll tell you offline because it’s freaking hilarious. So besides my absolute favorite, I leave you with my favorite top ten phrases people Google and somehow click on my site:

10. crazy neighbors

9. recovering nicely erin

8. janice m. cassidy florida

7. jokes about barbershopping

6. florida state capitol building phallic

5. elmira boobs

4. baldwinsville ny porn - 4 and 5 are actually just examples, I get more variations between Baldwinsville, Elmira, Southside High School before boobs or porn. Yea.

3. cupcake cassidy

2. stuck in elmira

1. erin died january 19th, 2007

February 14th, 2007

My Valentine is ME

Hilly at Snackie’s World has declared this Valentine’s Day Self-Love Day. And I am totally on board. I spent too many years thinking V-Day was the dumbest holiday ever and now that I realize how dumb that is, I’m trying to show my Sunday School kids that this doesn’t have to be a “oh woe is me, I don’t have a romantic counterpart” kind of day and there are other kinds of love to celebrate!

So, the rules are, I state one thing I love about me and if you feel so inclined, post a comment and tell me one thing you love about me. If you’d like to play, post it on your blog and love yourself this Valentine’s Day.

What I love about me is I can see the humor or something positive in just about anything you throw at me. If it’s a bad day at work, I will list all the conspiracy theories that made my day so and find a way to blame it all on a certain mass of energy that may or may not be blue in nature. If you’re locked out of your car, I’ll point out that your cat is doing just fine in there and all she wants is attention. Your ex-boyfriend is a total slime, I’ll join the mob of friends to confront him because I’ve always wanted to do something white trashy. It’s my own way to relieve some stress and if I’m lucky, I can put a little smile on your face too.

Ok, now it’s your turn.

February 13th, 2007

RoboFlipper

Sorry for the lack of postings of late. I’ve been working away, even took a trip to Corporate and back.

But I had to check in to report on this headline: Navy May Deploy Anti-Terrorism Dolphins

I, for one, would like it noted that I love the dolphins and have always supported them in their efforts and will give them anything they want when they come to take over the world.

February 1st, 2007

Where’s Erin?

Wow, you take a vacation and everything crashes in around you when you get back. Figures. I haven’t had much to blog about (except for maybe a review of that Dr. Laura board game Jason, Eugene, Kmommer and I played) but I wanted to check 2 more events off the list of my community service.

- First, I went small. After all, this is about things anyone can do, right? And if you say no, I’ll just remind you it’s my game and I’ll play it however I want. (Have I mentioned I’m a little stressed these days?) Anyway, Wegmans is running a program right now where you can Check Out Hunger. You swipe in a card that says to add so much to my grocery bill to give to the Food Bank. It makes sense; you’re buying all this food for yourself, why not help out someone who can’t afford that huge spread you’re preparing for the Super Bowl?

- Then, I got a call to help fill some care packages for more Marines. So, I picked up some Sudoku books, a Farmer’s Almanac, floss, chapstick and a $20 International calling card. I so wish I had the resources to do what Dave from Blogography (my new favorite blog) did, but the best I can do is support his cause and tell you to visit Any Soldier.